Q: My girlfriend and I have decided to have sex and she is going to be on the pill but do I still need to wear a condom? It’ll be the 1st time for both of us. She says a condom will help me last longer. What kind of condom should I use? Should we pick out the condom together or should I surprise her? Can she put the condom on my penis herself because that would be fun!
PS- we’re eagerly awaiting an answer!
A: Using two different forms of birth control, i.e. the pill and condoms together can even further reduce your chance of pregnancy. Either one of these methods, used separately, can be over 95% effective, so combined they are quite effective indeed.
A condom may reduce your sensation a bit and prolong your ability to have intercourse without ejaculating. However keep in mind that as this is your first experience, what’s going on with your brain may be the most important variable. Also, you have not established a baseline to determine how sex works best for you. So it would be good to go easy on yourself and be open to trying a bunch of different approaches to figure out what works best for you and your partner.
There are lots of different condoms to choose from. It’s good to try a whole bunch of different ones to see what you like best. The size and shape of your penis might skew your decision in one way or another. Some of the world’s best-selling condoms are Durex Extra Sensitive and Crown Skinless Skin. Many condom companies give reviews of different condoms and user impressions of different styles so that you can better determine what might work for you. You could try condomdepot or condomwizard.
If your partner would like to help you pick out and put on the condom that could be fun! Just remember when putting on a condom to be careful not to scratch it with your nails, hold the reservoir tip to make sure there’s no air bubble, and make sure you put it on the right way, with the roll on the outside, so you can roll it down easily. If you put in on backwards, you’ll know because it won’t roll down easily, so just get a new condom and try again. She might even try putting it on with her mouth, that’s fun for some folks 
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