Q: I was pretty young when first I had sex. My older friends took me to see some prostitutes. I decided at that time I don’t like sex with prostitutes because I didn’t love the women. I like to have sex with emotional feelings. A couple years later I went with my friends again to some prostitutes. We were drunk. I was unable to get an erection when the prostitute touched me and I got very scared that I am impotent.
After that I had no sex because there was no one I loved. Now I like one girl and when I’m kissing her I have an erection. We haven’t had sex yet but I think it will be soon. I’m afraid I won’t be able to do anything with her. If I have no erection without feelings for a woman is that impotence?
A: It is very possible your lack of erection with the prostitute was caused by being drunk and not feeling attracted to her. If you are able to get erections with a woman you like or are able to masturbate (we don’t think there’s anything wrong with it) then there’s not really any reason to be worried.
It may be helpful to know that most men lose an erection at some point in their life. Sometimes it happens even if they are aroused and love the woman. It’s just a natural occurrence that sometimes it will go soft for no reason and become hard again later. Don’t panic.
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