Q: Do I use one or two fingers to masturbate my female partner? What is the best technique?
A: The best technique is the one that works for your partner the best. Asking your partner what she likes best can be a great way to find this out! Another idea is to experiment and ask for feedback from your partner in the moment about how it feels.
The location of the stimulation can matter as much or more than the number of fingers used. You might want to pay some attention to the clitoris as well as the vaginal opening, or even experiment with finding the G-spot. Some women appreciate extra lubrication, and it’s always a good idea to have some K-Y Jelly or any good water-based lube on hand.
Here is a short Wikipedia entry on female masturbation, you might find it a useful starting point. There are also many books and videos available on female masturbation. One of the most popular is She Comes First: The… Guide to Pleasuring a Woman.
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