Q: I am a lesbian and my partner is a Big Full Figured Woman. What are some tips for having sex with a big woman? My problem is that she has big lips down there and when I go there it is hard to get to the clit and when I do I cant breathe. I would like any info - website and positions and tricks so that I can please her the way I want.
A: We do have a book for you! There is a book called Big Big Love by Hanne Blank, and it has a great section on sex with your partner. Suggestions from Ms. Blank about sex with a BBW are as follows: “A good position for cunnilingus is with the recipient on all fours, legals spread wide, with their partner kneeling or standing behind them. This pose works particularly well for many people if the lucky recipint of the oral attention kneels on a couch or depending on height of both bed and partner, the edge of a bed. The view when your partner is open in this position can be downright amazing.”
Unfortunately, there aren’t many websites for lesbian women and its quite a shame. We hope that eventually changes.
HotKarl | 14-Dec-07 at 2:39 pm | Permalink
I just added this book to our resources database.
Jessica Soffee | 11-Jan-08 at 7:39 pm | Permalink
this information was most useful, and i enjoyed the pleasure it brought me when i used it on my own sex partner:)
i’ve also got a wide set vagina and my flow is often almost 3 times as heavy as a normal persons!
i also menustrate for annywhere between 2 and 3 weeks at a time, making it a rare event that i get it on with her.
what do i do if i am seduced while on my cycle?
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