Q: My question is about penis length. I have heard that there are actually people who cannot have intercourse because their penis length is too small. I was wondering what length that was, do you know? I heard the average erect length for a penis is 5.3 inches (race does come into the equation).
My penis length when erect has been as small as 3 inches and on occasion 4 inches. I would say the average length when erect is only 3.25-3.50 inches. Therefore, since my penis is about 2 inches shorter than the average erect penis size, is my penis too small for intercourse?
Second question is, since I am about 20-25 pounds overweight, will that stop me from having great sex as well (no positions possible with my penis length)? Finally, will I not be able to procreate now since my semen may not be able to ejaculate in a woman’s vagina?
A: Your penis is indeed below average but that does not mean you won’t be able to have intercourse. The length of penis that is considered too small (called a micro-penis) is about 1.5 inches.
It’s a fact that losing some weight would be helpful for accessibility to your penis. The leaner the area around your pelvis is the more positions will open up for you. Even at 20-25 pounds up you can still do intercourse. Some positions you could try that are better for a shorter penis are woman on top, or with you on top – but the woman’s knees are drawn up to her chest or her legs are up in the air. A slightly more acrobatic position is called scissors, where you and the woman would be lying with heads at opposite ends of the bed and feet towards each other, one of you is on your side. Then you would each open your legs and scoot together until your genitals were together.
Penis-vagina sex is not all there is to a healthy and happy sex life. The vagina does not have a lot of nerve endings deep inside and not all women want a large penis. They will feel some pleasure from any size penis, as they do from fingers and sex toys. For many women attention to their clit is much more important and satisfying than intercourse. You may want to look into other ways you could please and entertain a woman such as oral sex and playing out fantasies. If your partner turns out to be interested in feeling more vaginal fullness you can get some dildos that are larger and add playing with those to your sex life. For your own fulfillment you may enjoy to receive oral sex and hand-jobs, or play out fantasies, over having intercourse.
When you get to the point of wanting to procreate you won’t have a problem due to penis size. Any amount of insertion is enough to deliver sperm to the right area. Even ejaculating on the labia can lead to pregnancy. If you and your partner try for a year (if she is under 30, 6 months for over 30) and she does not become pregnant then you both could see a fertility specialist for help. The fertility specialist will be able to tell if the source of a problem is you and your sperm or if it lies with your partner.
We hope this helps!
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