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Q: I sometimes wonder if I am normal. I am horny all the time and cannot help day dreaming about women I meet and or casually view. Which is ironic, because when I was a teenager my friends would say check out that babe and I just did not get it. Now in my fifties I cannot help checking them out. Moreover, I masturbate more now than ever some times up to four times in a day.

After three long term relationships one which included 15 years of marriage I don’t want another relationship, because all the partners I have met have trouble keeping up with my libido. And when the sex stops I want out. Am I just immature or am I suffering from OCD?

I heard about this new or old therapy called Tantric massage which I assume is aimed at approaching sex from a spiritual perspective allowing one to focus on pleasing ones partner instead pleasing ones self. Don’t get me wrong I was into giving my partners massages, showering them with gifts, romance (writing poems) and ensuring they had a great time or at least pretended to. I wonder is Tantra real or is it just an excuse to make 200 bucks per hour for a massage?
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Q: Can daily masturbation (for a long time, like years) end in male infertility? Is there anything definite about sperm quality, for example could masturbating change the quality of sperm which might lead to a mentally retarded child?

A: Semen is a fully renewable resource. While ejaculating may lower your sperm count temporarily, when you ejaculate semen, your body simply makes more the same way your body makes more saliva after you spit. Masturbation has no known negative health effects. We recommend Jackinworld for more male masturbation info.

Q: I’m a married man in my 20s and I love my wife very deeply. I have a strange fetish that I have some questions about though. Before we have sex I like for my wife to talk to me about her past sexual experiences. I love my wife and wouldn’t give her up for anything in the world, but there is something about picturing her being pleased by another man that just drives me wild. Is this normal? Any information on this subject would be greatly appreciated.

A: Enjoying this activity with your wife is a completely normal thing to do. Many have often asked, and having this fantasy is completely normal. We’re sure there are many men who think about their girlfriend/wives having sex with other men while they watch. There is nothing wrong with it. People like fantasies and there’s nothing wrong with fantasies and imagination during sex.