Q: My partner doesn’t like to have sex doggy style but I love it. Nevertheless, she is always complaining that it hurts. Is it possible for a girl to be in pain when fucked doggy, or does she just say so because she doesn’t like the position?
A: It is entirely possible (and relatively common) for “doggy style” intercourse to be painful for a woman, due to the fact that it allows for a deeper penetration into her vagina than other sexual positions.
If your partner is willing to experiment, here are a few things that the two of you can try to make the position less painful for her:
*Try not to penetrate her all the way. If it’s the depth of your penis in her vagina that is hurting her, you can keep your hand around the base of your penis during intercourse so that it doesn’t go in as deep.
* Use lubricant if you are not doing so already. This will ease some of the friction that the position creates.
*Start slowly, so that the sex is not jarring to her (fast speeds can be painful and unsatisfying for many women), and communicate with her throughout the sex about what feels good to her and what does not.
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