Q: Can you tell me why single male swingers often get the boot by most swingers including couples and even many single women? Is it a personal security issue? I noticed that most swingers who are couples, women, and men alike prefer only women and couples. Most of their ads say single men need not apply.
A: The reason why single male swingers are given the boot is because many men are inappropriate when addressing either a couple or mostly women. In order to keep the “creep” factor out of the swingers scene, hosts often deny access to men not accompanied by a female partner. If you are someone who is very responsible and can adhere to the rules of swinger parties, it might work if you put an ad like Craigslist and look for a woman or couple who would be willing to have you join them for the evening. It helps to have folks vouch for your good nature and well-behaved manners, and perhaps then if you become a regular, the host might allow you to attend parties so long as you don’t do anything inappropriate.
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