Q: How does one go about asking seemingly heterosexual friends to experiment. I believe myself to be bisexual, but I feel like it would help to have some closure or experience, but I don’t want to ruin any friendships along the way.
A: It’s the same way as asking any friend to engage in something sexual with you. You try to figure out if they’re interested in you sexually, and if you think they are, you suggest whatever it is you’d like to do. (”Hey, do you want to: go out on a date/go out for coffee/make out/etc.?”) Then, it’s up to the person you asked, just like it is in heterosexual hook-ups.
Asking out friends is always a risk. Sometimes the reward is worth the risk, and sometimes it’s not. You also might want to go to activities sponsored for gay and/or bisexual people (Lyric in San Francisco is an example) and meet up with people there that you know have a similar orientation if you’re wondering that none of your friends shares homosexual preferences.
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