Q: If I want to give a guy a handjob how do I go about that? I mean is it just about the penis or the other stuff, too? And how do I do it? What makes it feel good for a guy?
A: First of all, keep in mind that every guy is different, and that what feels good for one guy may not be great for another guy. So, the most important part of handjobs–or any kind of sex, for that matter–is communication with your partner. This could mean just paying attention to the way he responds to what you’re doing as you try different things, or asking him what he likes. He might even be willing to show you how he likes to be touched.
The general idea of a handjob is to wrap a hand around the shaft of a penis and to stroke it up and down, much the same way a guy would masturbate by himself. However, there are many, many variations: dry or with lubrication, varying the grip, speed, or firmness, or stimulating other areas as well. Both men and women have a high concentration of nerve endings in the genital area, which is what makes it feel good to be touched there. On men, these sensitive areas generally include the head and shaft of the penis, the balls, the skin around and underneath the balls, and even the anus (though many guys are not comfortable being touched there). The most sensitive place on a guy’s penis is typically on the underside, where the head meets the shaft, but just like the clitoris, this can sometimes get oversensitive if it is stimulated too much.
If you’d like to know a little more about techniques that guys use on themselves, you can check out this website on male masturbation called Jackinworld.
For more on this and other general sex information, you might want to check out a book called Guide to Getting It On, published by Goofy Foot Press.
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