Q: I’ve gathered a lot of information on my own but I’m in a bit of a bind. My intimate friend is living 6 hours away from me and he can not make him self ejaculate by masturbation, porn, prostate, ice… he’s tried all self ways of getting off. I come up there at the end of the month and would take care of it, but in between is there any sure method that will get him off?
My other question is what exactly is retrograde ejaculation? What are the risks of it and how would one do it? Since I heard that it goes into the bladder so when in the bladder does it dissolve, does it come out when you pee, or what exactly happens?
A: There are many reasons a man may have difficulty ejaculating. Without knowing the specific cause of your friend’s difficulty, it is not possible to give you a sure-fire method to get him off. Also, even though they tend to happen in unison, ejaculation and orgasm are two different things and one can happen without the other.
For many men with this problem, the difficulty is psychological, and often a response to pressure to ejaculate, or other stresses in life. If this is the cause, the best way to approach it is without focus on the grand finale. Just play with touch and experiment with what turns him on and feels good in the moment. Sexual pleasure does not have to focus on building to the climax. Often, when a male becomes more comfortable with letting himself enjoy sexual play, the pleasure climaxes to ejaculation more easily. Finding what really turns him on can help as well. Sometimes what really gets a person going can be a surprise even to them. Viewing a variety of porn can help a person find what they respond to.
There’s also the possibility the problem may be medical. Blood pressure issues and diabetes are two common sources of problems with ejaculation and maintaining erections. Getting a physical and consulting with a doctor can either confirm or eliminate medical conditions as a cause.
Retrograde ejaculation can be caused by medical conditions such as diabetes, or can be accomplished purposefully through tantric practices. The muscles in the base of the penis clamp down forcing the semen back up to the bladder. The semen does come out during urination, giving the the urine a cloudy look.
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