Q: I am a girl kinda experienced with sex, but I have never had an orgasm when I have sex. I lost my virginity when I was 16 and since then I have been having sex. I fake it all the time but I want to experience the real thing. There are times when I have sex for hours and still nothing. I am really tired of faking it!
A: Whether you are a male or female, the best thing you can do is to figure out what feels good to you. If you’re able to orgasm through masturbation, pay attention to what works for you both physically and mentally. It’s preferable that you feel comfortable with your sexual partner- comfortable enough that you can communicate this issue to him or her, not be worrying about it during sex, and be willing to try different things with time and without pressure to succeed right away.
[ Cross posted from Yahoo! Answers, where this SFSI Answer was chosen best answer to this question. ]
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