Q: My boyfriend always asks me if I feel him cum. I can’t feel it. I can tell when he cums from his physical change or sounds he makes but I can’t feel anything inside me. Is this unusual that I can’t feel anything? When reading porn, it makes you thing that you should be able to feel it. But hey, how true is that?
A: It’s common that women don’t feel their partner ejaculating inside of them; many other women report this. While there are nerve endings in the vagina, most are close to the vaginal entrance rather than deeper inside.
Many women do report that they can tell when their partner is coming from *other* cues, like you said — changes in expressions or tenseness in the body or other ways.