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We’ll be posting tidbits of information for the greater SFSI community and folks interested in random bits of Sex Information.

Boyfriend likes she-male and tranny porn

Q: I always knew that my boyfriend watched some type of porn that he didn’t want to tell me about, but last night I was finally able to get him to tell me. He told me that he likes to watch shemale porn and tranny porn. Does this make him gay? I asked him if [...]

Am I supposed to have my period while I’m on Depo Provera?

Q: Am I supposed to have my period while I’m on Depo Provera? A: Periods become fewer and lighter for most women on Depo Provera, and often stop altogether. The longer a woman uses the shot, the more likely her periods will stop, and it may take up to a year for periods to return [...]

Is my medication messing up my erections?

Q: I am in my early 30′s and don’t seem to get hard erections for any length of time like I used too. I know this is common with aging but am I too young for this to be happening? If I ask my doctor, am I too young for Viagra or something similar? Also, [...]

How can I have an orgasm with my partner?

Q: I am female and my boyfriend and I have sex frequently, but I’ve never had an orgasm. Here is my problem: he will be on top and will be doing some sort of move that feels wonderful and if he were to keep it up I would possibly have an orgasm. Problem is it [...]

Is my penis big enough? Can I make it bigger?

Q: Hey! I’m very sorry to be wasting your time and I know you probably get thousands of emails about the same questions, but I’ve never really talked or asked someone about this straight out and openly; so when I saw your website I thought it would be a perfect opportunity. I’m a 20 year [...]

How can I support my transitioning partner?

Q: I am in a relationship with someone who is transitioning, M to F, about six months on hormone therapy. This is my first relationship with anyone transgendered, and I find myself not exactly woefully ignorant, but without the resources to deal with this. Is there a support group for the friends/lovers/families of TG’s? I [...]

What kind of condom should I use and will it make me last longer?

Q: My girlfriend and I have decided to have sex and she is going to be on the pill but do I still need to wear a condom? It’ll be the 1st time for both of us. She says a condom will help me last longer. What kind of condom should I use? Should we [...]

Why is it called a blow job?

Q: I would like to know why it is that they call it a blow job when in reality, you actually suck? I am very curious about how it came to be called the blow job as opposed to the suck job. Please help me out with this. A: You ask a fine question. It [...]