Q: My wife and I have been married for 10 years. We’re happy but the sex has gone from hot to not, and infrequent. I am trying to help rekindle something hot again. Here’s the thing: I have a friend and colleague, FriendX, that my wife is infatuated with. He’s [...]
Tagged communication, fantasies, swingingQ: I’m a male and I’ve never had sex. I am 15. When I pee it burns. It only happens once in a while. Is there any possible way this is normal so I can forget about this? Because I am scared to go to the doctor and find out I have an std. [...]
Tagged stdQ: I have recently reconnected with an old lover; we have been writing occasionally for years, but only recently saw each other after 30 years. He’s a combat veteran, has a Purple Heart, and was involved in some serious intrigue overseas.
We’ve discussed restraints in the past, just kind of flirting with naughtiness, and I mentioned [...]
Q: I have a question about safe condom use. I often have condoms break and I’m not sure why. I understand how to put them on correctly, how to leave space at the tip, how to pinch the tip as you are first rolling it on, and how to keep it lubricated if [...]
Tagged condoms, contraception, erectionsSan Francisco Sex Information’s Continuing Education program is a series of monthly classes on topics of interest to sex educators, helping professionals, and anyone curious about the workings of human sexuality. Admission is $5 for anyone who’s volunteered with SFSI in the past six months, and $15 for the general public.
These classes do not necessarily [...]
Q: How can I help my boyfriend give me better oral sex? He tries pretty hard to get me off, although not quite as often as I would like. It is difficult thought, because it takes me so long to orgasm and his lengthy efforts so often leave both of us frustrated that I [...]
Tagged communication, oral sexQ: I am a 57 year old female, straight, and have had MS for the last 3 years. I left a long-term relationship a few years ago because it wasn’t going to be able to weather the MS. He wasn’t the right partner to be with once I had a serious, chronic illness. [...]
Tagged disability, therapyQ: I would like to know if it is OK to travel with my sex toys in my checked-in luggage to Saudi Arabia. Will be a problem for me? What is your advice? My sex toys include rubber/silicon dildos and a vibrator.
A: The quick answer, according to the web site www.virtualtourist.com, is that sex [...]
Q: I am a woman with a question I don’t exactly know how to phrase. It has to do with what excites me, sexually. It doesn’t have to do with typical bondage/S&M type fetishes, which I have explored actively throughout my life and have come to accept as not inherently bad for me. This interest [...]
Tagged fantasies, fetish, therapy