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Author Archives: Lil'Miss B

SFSI trained sex-educator. Supervisor at the SFSI Switchboard. Booze bitch. Nice person.

My husband is into pervy stuff, do I go along?

Q: My husband is into coprophilia – he wants me to defecate on his face and into his mouth. I am completely repulsed by this. Not my idea of ‘sexy’ sex. It leaves me cold and not in the mood. Also makes me feel degraded and low. I’ve explained all this to him but it [...]

Is it true circumcised penises are less prone to infection and STDs?

Q: I keep reading intact feels better for the guy during sex, but it’s more maintenance to keep clean and can be infected and carry STDs easier than cut. Is there any truth to that? A: Studies have demonstrated a lowered risk for HIV transmission among circumcised men. For information, you can read about these [...]

Is it wrong to look at cartoon porn?

Q: Is it wrong to look at cartoon porn? A: We’re not sure what your specific concerns around cartoon porn are, but we don’t pass judgment on pornography use or any other sexual behavior involving consenting participants. If your use of pornography is causing you distress and/or causing you to neglect other areas of your [...]

Will Amoxicillin cure Gonorrhea?

Q: If I have gonorrhea will the Amoxicillin I got for strep cure it? I had sex (a one time kinda accident thing :/) and he texted me yesterday and told me he had gonorrhea. I went to the doctor today and I have strep so they gave me Amoxicillin and I heard that will [...]

Why can’t I conceive?

Q: I am 21 years old. I started my period when I was 13 and have had irregular periods ever since. I’d go a few months with one then go a few months without one, then go 5 months with out having one then have one then go another 5 months to a year without [...]

Am I too small for an IUD?

Q: Hello! I have a few questions about the IUD, specifically Mirena. -I’m a tiny girl. 5’10″, 118 pounds, and I’m pretty narrow down there. Will it be painful for me to have an IUD on a daily basis? I’m aware it will be uncomfortable right after it’s inserted, but what about from day to [...]

I am freaked out I may have seen underaged porn…

Q: I was looking for porn online and ended up on a few different sites. I ended up on a couple sites where amateurs upload their own home videos. On the latter of the two sites there were videos posted of strip teases that had a banner running across them saying they were from another [...]

Why can’t I come from a blow job?

Q: I’m a man with a question about oral sex. So far, I haven’t had much of a problem with intercourse, however I can’t seem to reach orgasm through oral sex. It feels good and I enjoy it, but I can never finish. I am concerned because my girlfriend gets discouraged and feels insecure because [...]

My other partner kissed a woman who had a cold sore. What should we do?

Q: I have a somewhat complex question about oral herpes. My husband and I are polyamorous. My other partner kissed a woman who did not disclose to him until later the same evening that she had a three-day-old cold sore. The cold sore did have a scab, and did not bleed or leak fluid onto [...]

Is it true that lesbians are at lower risk of contracting STDs?

Q: Is it true that lesbians are at lower risk of contracting STDs? How can lesbians protect themselves from STDs? A: STD risk is based on a lot of factors including the sex act, contact with body fluid, and part of the body receiving the act or fluid. Because of the sex acts and anatomy [...]