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Author Archives: Lil'Miss B

SFSI trained sex-educator. Supervisor at the SFSI Switchboard. Booze bitch. Nice person.

Why can’t I come from intercourse?

Q: I’m a man in my early twenties and I find it really hard to get to the orgasm during the intercourse. I don’t drink any alcohol, and I have no problem getting to the orgasm through masturbation, so I wouldn’t blame it on physical problems. I’ve been with five different girls, some of who [...]

How can I get my lover into shit play?

Q: I am a 34 year old divorced woman turned lesbian 2 years back. I live with my partner currently but when I was single, I was a masturbation freak. I masturbate even today but at that time the frequency was quite high as you may understand. That time just in curiosity I started fingering [...]

How can I deal with my sexually abused partner?

Q: I am a woman who is dating a fellow who grew up in a house with 7 children, all of whom were molested. The father molested most of them, but my guy was molested by a sibling. He told me early on that he had a fetish for peri-pubescent girls, like 12-14 year olds, [...]

I’m a girl who comes too fast

Q: I’m a girl and if I get really turned on I come super fast, within a couple seconds. It’s just overwith really fast It’s not comfortable to keep going afterward. I know a lot of guys have this problem but I’m a girl and I have this problem. Is there any way to fix [...]

I had HPV a long time ago. Can I still transmit it?

Q: Does one develop immunity to Human Papiloma Virus in their Genital Warts form (including anal)? I had an outbreak about fifteen years ago. At that time they were surgically removed. I have not had a recurrence, but I suppose I could still carry the virus. I therefore decided to revisit this subject and inform [...]

Continuing Education: Introduction to LYRIC Services

October is National Coming out Month and with the passage and signing of of SB 543, California’s new landmark mental health bill that makes it possible for young people ages 12 – 17 to access mental health services without the consent of their parents. This class focuses on a local SF organization that helps and [...]

How can I handle more anal sex?

Q: My boyfriend loves my butt and loves anal, but I just can’t stand the pain. We’ve done everything recommended, foreplay, relaxing, orgasm, we use plenty of lube. He warms up with his fingers but I still can’t take the pain. We’ll have anal sex about once every two or three months because of this, [...]

SFSI Continuing Ed: Transgender Medicine with Dr. Charles Moser

Wednesday, September 15 ยท 7:00pm – 8:30pm As Transgender Remembrance Day is on November 20th this year, we thought this would be a great time to focus on the medical decisions that people who undergo sexual reassignment are faced with. In this informal talk, Dr. Charles Moser, MD will answer questions about the medical options, [...]

What to do about my foot fetish? I feel like it’s getting out of hand.

Q: I have had a foot fetish as long as I can remember. I have never told anyone. Not friends, family, not even my best friend. But last night was so weird. I had a dream i just couldn’t control myself and jumped on a girl and just started having sex with her, including her [...]

Is it OK to use a vibrator while pregnant?

Q: I have read all over the web that it is safe to use an external vibrator during pregnancy. However, no one seems to address the fact that some vibrators are stronger than others. I am wondering if the Hitachi magic wand vibrator, which is really supposed to be a back massager and creates a [...]