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Author Archives: Lil'Miss B

SFSI trained sex-educator. Supervisor at the SFSI Switchboard. Booze bitch. Nice person.

I’m new to oral, what should I do?

Q: I’m a 20-year-old woman who has abstained from most sexual activity up to now by choice, largely because of reservations about the guys I’ve dated. I don’t regret that at all, but now I’m pretty inexperienced and seeing an older more experienced person. I imagine I feel as weird asking basic sexual questions as [...]

Is it illegal or bad for teens to do webcam sex?

Q: I’m a fourteen year old Bi male, and using Omegle I’ve had camera sex a few times with other consenting users. I was wondering if this is ever illegal in anyway, or if it’s something I shouldn’t be doing, and I’d love some advice. A: Thanks for your question. Since you are a minor [...]

Can strap ons be causing my UTIs?

Q: I get Urinary Tract Infections after having sex with strap on dildos. How do I prevent this from happening? I don’t use condoms just normal KY lube. A: We don’t recommend KY lube. Try a glycerin-free lube, there are many made specifically for sex toys. Additionally, you might want to try using a condom [...]

Do uncut and cut penises feel different?

Q: What’s the difference between sex with a guy who’s cut vs. uncut? My current boyfriend is foreign and will be moving here within two weeks. It’ll be his first time overall — so naturally he’s terrified — and my first time with an uncut guy. Is it going to make a difference in how [...]

How can we get into scat play?

Q: Hello, I have a couple questions on something my girlfriend wants to do. My girlfriend wants to do some scat play. She is really into it and has never had the courage to bring it in with a partner. She tells me that she is into soiling her panties and diapers. I’ve now noticed [...]

What can I do about my spandex fetish?

Q: I am an 18 year old straight male with a spandex fetish looking to overcome it. I have always been turned on by people in spandex and by wearing spandex itself. I have no idea what started it, I have always been turned on by it. I secretly wear my mom’s tights when no [...]

How can I stop faking orgasm?

Q: I am a girl kinda experienced with sex, but I have never had an orgasm when I have sex. I lost my virginity when I was 16 and since then I have been having sex. I fake it all the time but I want to experience the real thing. There are times when I [...]

Why can’t my guy get himself off?

Q: I’ve gathered a lot of information on my own but I’m in a bit of a bind. My intimate friend is living 6 hours away from me and he can not make him self ejaculate by masturbation, porn, prostate, ice… he’s tried all self ways of getting off. I come up there at the [...]

How can I hide my erection from my prom date?

Q: I am going to high school prom this weekend, and was asked to go by a girl that I have been a very close friend of, and I have had a crush on her for some time. I am planning on joining the military after I graduate next month, so I am not trying [...]

What can I use as homemade female sex toys?

Q: What can I use as homemade female sex toys? A: Many women use vegetables like cucumbers as dildos. If you are going to use any kind of a food item for insertion, it is best to cover it with a condom. Getting pieces of food in the vagina could lead to infection. Hair brush [...]