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How should I start masturbating?

Q: I am female. My fiance mentioned to me lately that a good source of therapy for my emotional anxieties and for my insomnia would be masturbation. I have no clue on the subject so I have researched it. I know it’s an exploration of yourself and finding what pleases you. I am contemplating getting [...]

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Use condoms with Nonoxynol-9 yes or no?

Q: My health teacher told me to use condoms with Nonoxynol-9, but MTSS said that it causes tearing and increases disease transmission. So I know that spermicidal condoms are good for preventing pregnancy, but I am a gay guy. I am more worried about diseases than pregnancy. So which condoms do I [...]

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Why does intercourse hurt?

Q: I am female. I have been having intercourse for a fairly short time-the latest being my fourth. Every time, however, I have the same problem–penetration is painful; not unbearable, but certainly not normal or slight. Relaxation or lubrication is not the problem, nor is my partner doing anything to cause this. He [...]

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Can I still give people my HPV after 28 years?

Q: Thirty years ago I had genital warts that were effectively treated, and I have had no recurrence of the warts during this past 28 years. Now I am a man in my 60s.
 
What are the possibilities that I may still communicate the virus at this time? Are there any tests that I can take to determine [...]

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How can I get rid of this fetish?

Q: I have a spanking fetish, and I desperately want to overcome it. I am not entirely sure what the fetish is caused by, but I have always fantasized about it for as long as I can remember - probably since I was about three years old. (Seriously.) I am a self-confident [...]

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Why can’t his penis get inside me?

Q: I am 19 and had sex with my boyfriend for the first time last night. I am on the pill and I didn’t have a problem becoming “wet” but I don’t think he ever was able to penetrate me. I am a virgin and am wondering if I am too tight. I tried to [...]

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Should I talk to this guy again?

Q: Today I gave my ipod to a guy I really like. Afterward I realized i had all my porn, all the mtss episodes and in the web browser, and I had your page on anal sex open. I was wondering if you could tell me what boys think of girls who have that stuff [...]

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How can I find a sex partner without spending money?

Q: Hello I am a mid-20s man from Europe. I have two questions, help me please. I have never had sex because of money shortage and my religion. It is difficult to make the first step for first sex. What would make sex easier for me? How can I make this step without money?
A: There [...]

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Am I straight or gay?

Q: I am having trouble figuring out if I am gay or straight. The last time I dated a girl, I had absolutely no connection between us, and that has been happening for a while when I date girls. I also have feelings for male friends I can’t understand. Please help!
A: Thank you for your [...]

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Is it healthy to drink pre-cum?

Q: My wife hesitates to suck my penis because of my pre-ejaculation. Does it affect her health to drink it? Even when I’m licking her vagina, and drinking her juices, I like the taste. Does it affect my health?
A: As with both men and women, pre-ejaculation can not affect your health. For men, pre-ejaculate [...]

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