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Category Archives: Questions

Is my Mirena IUD affecting my periods?

Q: Just a year ago I got a Mirena IUD. For the first few months I didn’t really get my period, there was occasional spotting. In the past month I have started to get a more regular spotting. It’s like a super light period. I dont know if I should be concerned. Please help! A: [...]

How can anal sex and ass-to-mouth be safe?

Q: I have seen in pornos that people have condom-less anal sex and condom-less ass to mouth. I was wondering if you knew what they did to ensure the cleanness of that area on the inside? A: First off, pretty much anything you see in porno is an exaggerated sex practice. The performers are taking [...]

Can you feel when a man cums inside?

Q: My boyfriend always asks me if I feel him cum. I can’t feel it. I can tell when he cums from his physical change or sounds he makes but I can’t feel anything inside me. Is this unusual that I can’t feel anything? When reading porn, it makes you thing that you should be [...]

Is it rude to give your partner tips on how to please you?

Q: If you are looking for more excitement during sex with your partner, is it wrong to ask him to do something that turns you on? To him, it’s a turn off and he gives up on sex completely. When he wants sex, which is almost everyday, I’m not as thrilled cause he’s a quick [...]

How do I deal with my girthy penis?

Q: My penis has too much girth. Erect, it’s a little less than 6 inches in circumference, but none of my girlfriends has ever been comfortable with it. Especially now that my current partner has had menopause. I’m wondering if there’s a special condom that restricts circumference but not length. I expect not, but perhaps [...]

I forgot to put my NuvaRing back in, now what?

Q: I take my nuvaring out during sex because I can feel it. I accidentally fell asleep last night without putting it back in. As soon as I realized this morning, I put it back in, but it was probably out for at least 9 hours. I’ve had this nuvaring in for almost two weeks [...]

Is pulling out a good birth control method or not?

Q: Is pulling out a good birth control method or not? I keep getting conflicting answers and I don’t want to get pregnant. A: The withdrawal method works by keeping sperm out of the vagina. Very few (if any) sperm are contained in pre-cum, and none if he pees before sex. The only way you [...]

How much money can I make as a pro domme?

Q: I’m writing because I’ve been working as a stripper for some time and am considering migrating from that branch of sex work into working as a pro domme. I was wondering if you know the average income for a pro domme or where I might be able to find that out. I’m sure there’s [...]

Is it true circumcised penises are less prone to infection and STDs?

Q: Is it true circumcised penises are less prone to infection and STDs? I keep reading intact feels better for the guy during sex, but it’s more maintenance to keep clean and can be infected and carry STDs easier than cut. Is there any truth to that? A: Studies have demonstrated a lowered risk for [...]

Can my boyfriend get over trans-gender porn?

Q: My boyfriend, who claims to be completely straight, is into trans-gender (men-genitals, female-form) porn. He says he feels really ashamed from watching it and wants to stop more than anything. I think this goes back to a childhood sexual experience with his cousin when he was too young to know better. It was his [...]