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Category Archives: Questions

Why can’t I come from intercourse?

Q: I’m a man in my early twenties and I find it really hard to get to the orgasm during the intercourse. I don’t drink any alcohol, and I have no problem getting to the orgasm through masturbation, so I wouldn’t blame it on physical problems. I’ve been with five different girls, some of who [...]

How can I get my lover into shit play?

Q: I am a 34 year old divorced woman turned lesbian 2 years back. I live with my partner currently but when I was single, I was a masturbation freak. I masturbate even today but at that time the frequency was quite high as you may understand. That time just in curiosity I started fingering [...]

How can I deal with my sexually abused partner?

Q: I am a woman who is dating a fellow who grew up in a house with 7 children, all of whom were molested. The father molested most of them, but my guy was molested by a sibling. He told me early on that he had a fetish for peri-pubescent girls, like 12-14 year olds, [...]

I’m a girl who comes too fast

Q: I’m a girl and if I get really turned on I come super fast, within a couple seconds. It’s just overwith really fast It’s not comfortable to keep going afterward. I know a lot of guys have this problem but I’m a girl and I have this problem. Is there any way to fix [...]

How can I handle more anal sex?

Q: My boyfriend loves my butt and loves anal, but I just can’t stand the pain. We’ve done everything recommended, foreplay, relaxing, orgasm, we use plenty of lube. He warms up with his fingers but I still can’t take the pain. We’ll have anal sex about once every two or three months because of this, [...]

What to do about my foot fetish? I feel like it’s getting out of hand.

Q: I have had a foot fetish as long as I can remember. I have never told anyone. Not friends, family, not even my best friend. But last night was so weird. I had a dream i just couldn’t control myself and jumped on a girl and just started having sex with her, including her [...]

Is it OK to use a vibrator while pregnant?

Q: I have read all over the web that it is safe to use an external vibrator during pregnancy. However, no one seems to address the fact that some vibrators are stronger than others. I am wondering if the Hitachi magic wand vibrator, which is really supposed to be a back massager and creates a [...]

I’m new to oral, what should I do?

Q: I’m a 20-year-old woman who has abstained from most sexual activity up to now by choice, largely because of reservations about the guys I’ve dated. I don’t regret that at all, but now I’m pretty inexperienced and seeing an older more experienced person. I imagine I feel as weird asking basic sexual questions as [...]

Is it illegal or bad for teens to do webcam sex?

Q: I’m a fourteen year old Bi male, and using Omegle I’ve had camera sex a few times with other consenting users. I was wondering if this is ever illegal in anyway, or if it’s something I shouldn’t be doing, and I’d love some advice. A: Thanks for your question. Since you are a minor [...]

Can strap ons be causing my UTIs?

Q: I get Urinary Tract Infections after having sex with strap on dildos. How do I prevent this from happening? I don’t use condoms just normal KY lube. A: We don’t recommend KY lube. Try a glycerin-free lube, there are many made specifically for sex toys. Additionally, you might want to try using a condom [...]