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Category Archives: Questions

How to avoid MRSA at the sex club?

Q: I was curious, what is my risk of contracting MRSA when I go to a sex club, provided that I use gloves when touching genital area and condoms for penetration (oral or other). Is it a higher risk than the same kind of activity in a private setting because of contact with surfaces or [...]

What can cause the development of auto-erotic asphyxia behaviors?

Q: What can cause the development of auto-erotic asphyxia behaviors? A: We are unaware of any research on how the behavior develops, but the reason people do it is because many people feel that it provides a very pleasurable orgasm. Auto-erotic asphyxiation is a moderately common sexual act and fantasy. It also can be a [...]

Why didn’t I ejaculate from that orgasm?

Q: I am a guy and I got my first oral oral experience with my girlfriend recently. When I came there was this very weird sensation (like tingling in my chest and rising up the face) that I never felt before when I reached orgasm by masturbation. That was just one thing. After I came [...]

I’m uncircumcised, and need condom advice…

Q: I am uncircumcised and I had a few questions first, I can’t find a condom that works with my penis. The foreskin moves up and down and and the condom starts to ride up my penis and bunch up and hang off at the end. I was wondering if there was a certain kind [...]

Didn’t have sex, but still worried about pregnancy…

Q: I’ve read your FAQ and read that, “It is almost impossible for a woman to become pregnant from a man ejaculating on her clothing or near her underwater. ” My situation is that I’ve never had direct genital contact with my boyfriend (no penetration, no rubbing genitals, no nothing). However, I’ve masturbated him, and [...]

Why can’t I orgasm?

Q: I’ve never had an orgasm. I’ve tried masturbation, and what I try that isn’t painful, is ineffective. The only two times I’ve had sex have been very painful and not enjoyable. I’ve had oral sex with a couple of guys and nothing has made me climax. I’m thinking that much of it could be [...]

The best STD test answers ever!

Q: I’m trying to find accurate and consistent window periods for testing for various STDs as well as how long it takes to get results. Unfortunately, this information seems to be very hard to find at all and sometimes conflicting when I do find it. I know this will vary from state to state, clinic [...]

I had a dream I kissed a girl. Am I bisexual?

Q: I am 14 years old and last night I had a dream about me hooking up (majorly) with another girl. I have never properly kissed either a guy or a girl but I had this really intense dream which makes me think. Am I in denial? Am I actually a bisexual or even a [...]

What is the actual size for a 14 year old boys penis?

Q: What is the actual size for a 14 year old boy’s penis? A: Thank you for your question. The length and circumference of the penis of boys will change as they grow older and go through puberty. Puberty is the process of physical changes by which a child’s body becomes an adult body capable [...]

How can I get over lusting for anal and trannies?

Q: I am struggling with something. I consider myself a straight male. I only ever catch myself looking at women, and quite frequently at that. I find, though, that I have a hard time keeping hard in regular sex. I didn’t really have successful sex until about three years ago, partially due to confidence but [...]