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My husband is into pervy stuff, do I go along?

Q: My husband is into coprophilia – he wants me to defecate on his face and into his mouth. I am completely repulsed by this. Not my idea of ‘sexy’ sex. It leaves me cold and not in the mood. Also makes me feel degraded and low. I’ve explained all this to him but it [...]

How can I get my lover into shit play?

Q: I am a 34 year old divorced woman turned lesbian 2 years back. I live with my partner currently but when I was single, I was a masturbation freak. I masturbate even today but at that time the frequency was quite high as you may understand. That time just in curiosity I started fingering [...]

How can I stop faking orgasm?

Q: I am a girl kinda experienced with sex, but I have never had an orgasm when I have sex. I lost my virginity when I was 16 and since then I have been having sex. I fake it all the time but I want to experience the real thing. There are times when I [...]

Should I surprise my wife with a 3rd partner?

Q: My wife and I have been married for 10 years. We’re happy but the sex has gone from hot to not, and infrequent. I am trying to help rekindle something hot again. Here’s the thing: I have a friend and colleague, FriendX, that my wife is infatuated with. He’s a tall fit gentleman that [...]

Will some BDSM trigger my lover’s combat memories?

Q: I have recently reconnected with an old lover; we have been writing occasionally for years, but only recently saw each other after 30 years. He’s a combat veteran, has a Purple Heart, and was involved in some serious intrigue overseas. We’ve discussed restraints in the past, just kind of flirting with naughtiness, and I [...]

How can I help my boyfriend give me better oral sex?

Q: How can I help my boyfriend give me better oral sex? He tries pretty hard to get me off, although not quite as often as I would like. It is difficult thought, because it takes me so long to orgasm and his lengthy efforts so often leave both of us frustrated that I would [...]

Should I do my friend’s sister?

Q: Hey, I’m a 17 year old junior in high school, and I’ve been friends with my neighbor since I can remember. His sister, 14, has always gotten along with me also. She asked me if we wanted to go “hang out” in her room. But then luckily some friends I play football with drove [...]

How do I bring up spanking?

Q: How do I communicate with my partner about spanking? I want to try it with him, but I don’t know how to bring up BDSM topics with sexual partners. A: There are several ways you can bring up the topic. For instance, it might be helpful to playfully bring up the subject during a [...]

Why do girls stroke my penis after I cum?

Q: Why do girls always want to stroke my penis after I ejaculate? Don’t they know it’s sensitive? A: It’s quite likely that the girls you’re having sex with do not know that your penis is unpleasantly sensitive right after you ejaculate. It’s possible that no one’s ever told them, and that they’ve had other [...]

Why can’t his penis get inside me?

Q: I am 19 and had sex with my boyfriend for the first time last night. I am on the pill and I didn’t have a problem becoming “wet” but I don’t think he ever was able to penetrate me. I am a virgin and am wondering if I am too tight. I tried to [...]