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Why can’t his penis get inside me?

Q: I am 19 and had sex with my boyfriend for the first time last night. I am on the pill and I didn’t have a problem becoming “wet” but I don’t think he ever was able to penetrate me. I am a virgin and am wondering if I am too tight. I tried to [...]

Should I talk to this guy again?

Q: Today I gave my ipod to a guy I really like. Afterward I realized i had all my porn, all the mtss episodes and in the web browser, and I had your page on anal sex open. I was wondering if you could tell me what boys think of girls who have that stuff [...]

How do I get my partner into pleasing me?

Q: My new partner is in his 70s and has had prostate surgery. He can come, but just barely, and dry. He always was easy to turn on, and so never dealt with pleasing a woman when he wasn’t. Now he’s with me and I’m still, in my late 60s, substantially sexual. He’s thinking about [...]

Should I worry about my boyfriend’s taste in porn?

Q: I feel insecure because my shorter boyfriend likes to look at “young,” “teen,” and “petite” porn. As a 5’10″ woman in her 30s, these are fantasies I can obviously not satisfy. Do I have reason to worry? If not, what do you suggest I do to overcome this insecurity? A: Many people enjoy watching [...]

How can I tell if my partner is satisfied?

Q: I have a question about knowing if a partner is satisfied in bed. Does the look on a partner’s face while his penis inside the vagina tell if he is satisfied? Can he tell if I am satisfied when his penis is inside my vagina? Do the sounds made by a partner tell? What [...]