Wednesday, November 17, 2010
Q: I am a woman who is dating a fellow who grew up in a house with 7 children, all of whom were molested. The father molested most of them, but my guy was molested by a sibling. He told me early on that he had a fetish for peri-pubescent girls, like 12-14 year olds, [...]
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
Q: I have had a foot fetish as long as I can remember. I have never told anyone. Not friends, family, not even my best friend. But last night was so weird. I had a dream i just couldn’t control myself and jumped on a girl and just started having sex with her, including her [...]
Q: Hello, I have a couple questions on something my girlfriend wants to do. My girlfriend wants to do some scat play. She is really into it and has never had the courage to bring it in with a partner. She tells me that she is into soiling her panties and diapers. I’ve now noticed [...]
Q: I am an 18 year old straight male with a spandex fetish looking to overcome it. I have always been turned on by people in spandex and by wearing spandex itself. I have no idea what started it, I have always been turned on by it. I secretly wear my mom’s tights when no [...]
Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Q: I am a woman with a question I don’t exactly know how to phrase. It has to do with what excites me, sexually. It doesn’t have to do with typical bondage/S&M type fetishes, which I have explored actively throughout my life and have come to accept as not inherently bad for me. This interest [...]
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
Q: What can cause the development of auto-erotic asphyxia behaviors? A: We are unaware of any research on how the behavior develops, but the reason people do it is because many people feel that it provides a very pleasurable orgasm. Auto-erotic asphyxiation is a moderately common sexual act and fantasy. It also can be a [...]
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
Q: I am struggling with something. I consider myself a straight male. I only ever catch myself looking at women, and quite frequently at that. I find, though, that I have a hard time keeping hard in regular sex. I didn’t really have successful sex until about three years ago, partially due to confidence but [...]
Wednesday, August 19, 2009
Q: How do I communicate with my partner about spanking? I want to try it with him, but I don’t know how to bring up BDSM topics with sexual partners. A: There are several ways you can bring up the topic. For instance, it might be helpful to playfully bring up the subject during a [...]
Q: I have a spanking fetish, and I desperately want to overcome it. I am not entirely sure what the fetish is caused by, but I have always fantasized about it for as long as I can remember – probably since I was about three years old. (Seriously.) I am a self-confident person, but this [...]
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Q: I have a question about an unusual, taboo sex act and I wasn’t sure who to ask. I have not engaged in this practice, but am curious about it. Is blood drinking considered a high risk sexual activity? I read somewhere that it is actually quite difficult to contract HIV that way because the [...]