San Francisco Sex Information » g-spot http://blog.sfsi.org Free, confidential, non-judgmental advice about sex Thu, 04 Mar 2010 03:39:22 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 en hourly 1 How do I get my pussy to squirt? http://blog.sfsi.org/2009/09/02/how-to-get-my-pussy-to-squirt/ http://blog.sfsi.org/2009/09/02/how-to-get-my-pussy-to-squirt/#comments Thu, 03 Sep 2009 02:00:41 +0000 Lil'Miss B http://blog.sfsi.org/?p=295 Q: I have a question about sex. I have been trying for a long time to get my pussy to squirt. Can you please help me. Can you send me a guide that might help me do this.

A: Not all women are able to squirt, but some are able to do so either on their own or with some practice. Most women who squirt start out by stimulating their g-spot, a small area of spongy tissue on the upper wall of a woman’s vagina. To find the G-spot, put your finger or fingers in your vagina and, with your fingers curving upwards (toward your belly) , make a “come here” motion, stroking the upper wall of your vagina with a firm, upward pressure. Not all women enjoy this type of stimulation, but if you do, continue experimenting to find out what works best for you. Some women orgasm from g-spot stimulation, and sometimes that orgasm is accompanied by ejaculation of fluid, or “squirting.” To learn a little more about g-spot stimulation and how to squirt, check out the resources listed below:

Babeland’s Guide to Female Ejaculation
The Smart Girl’s Guide to the G-Spot by Violet Blue
Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot by Deborah Sundahl

]]> http://blog.sfsi.org/2009/09/02/how-to-get-my-pussy-to-squirt/feed/ 0 Do I use one or two fingers to masturbate my female partner? What is the best technique? http://blog.sfsi.org/2007/10/08/do-i-use-one-or-two-fingers-to-masturbate-my-female-partner-what-is-the-best-technique/ http://blog.sfsi.org/2007/10/08/do-i-use-one-or-two-fingers-to-masturbate-my-female-partner-what-is-the-best-technique/#comments Mon, 08 Oct 2007 23:25:02 +0000 Hot Karl http://blog.sfsi.org/2007/10/08/do-i-use-one-or-two-fingers-to-masturbate-my-female-partner-what-is-the-best-technique/ Q: Do I use one or two fingers to masturbate my female partner? What is the best technique?

A: The best technique is the one that works for your partner the best. Asking your partner what she likes best can be a great way to find this out! Another idea is to experiment and ask for feedback from your partner in the moment about how it feels.

The location of the stimulation can matter as much or more than the number of fingers used. You might want to pay some attention to the clitoris as well as the vaginal opening, or even experiment with finding the G-spot. Some women appreciate extra lubrication, and it’s always a good idea to have some K-Y Jelly or any good water-based lube on hand.

Here is a short Wikipedia entry on female masturbation, you might find it a useful starting point. There are also many books and videos available on female masturbation. One of the most popular is She Comes First: The… Guide to Pleasuring a Woman.

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