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Question about orgasm pain, and masturbating in the shower.

Q: I am female and I have 2 questions. First, every time I have an orgasm my arms start to really hurt. I have never heard of this before and I was wondering if this is normal. It happens every single time (usually the right arm) and it is really painful for about 5 minutes. [...]

What can I use for lube?

Q: Being under 18 and not having my drivers license, I can’t get proper lube from a store (unless by a miracle my mom got if for me, no questions asked). I was wondering if there are any household alternatives to lube that are safe for internal use? I had been using Vaseline but I [...]

What household items can I use in my ass?

Q: Hey, I am an under 18 yr old straight male. I usually do some kind of anal stimulation when I masturbate. For the longest time, I have just stuck one or two (three on rare occasion) tubes of chapstick up my ass. It…well, it feels good enough that I keep doing it! But sometimes [...]

Is it normal to fantasize during masturbation?

Q: My question is is it normal to fantasize before/during masturbation? I was taught that while it is not wrong to masturbate, it is wrong to have lustful thoughts. But I can not help myself! I MUST fantasize prior to and during masturbation in order to reach orgasm. I can’t just focus on the sensations. [...]

Can daily masturbation cause male infertility?

Q: Can daily masturbation (for a long time, like years) end in male infertility? Is there anything definite about sperm quality, for example could masturbating change the quality of sperm which might lead to a mentally retarded child? A: Semen is a fully renewable resource. While ejaculating may lower your sperm count temporarily, when you [...]

Should I start masturbating?

Q: I have never done masturbation in my life. I feel scary doing it. I am 25 years of age and single. I want to know is masturbating yourself is safe or not? Does it cause any harm to your health cause me any problems after I get married? Is it a healthy activity if [...]

How can I find my prostate?

Q: I am a 24 year old straight male but I like to finger my ass. I want to know if I can get orgasm by finding my G-Spot and if yes can you please avise how do I locate my G-Spot. I mean the posture, number of fingers, body position etc.. A: Lots of [...]

Do I use one or two fingers to masturbate my female partner? What is the best technique?

Q: Do I use one or two fingers to masturbate my female partner? What is the best technique? A: The best technique is the one that works for your partner the best. Asking your partner what she likes best can be a great way to find this out! Another idea is to experiment and ask [...]