San Francisco Sex Information » prostate http://blog.sfsi.org Free, confidential, non-judgmental advice about sex Thu, 04 Mar 2010 03:39:22 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 en hourly 1 How can I find my prostate? http://blog.sfsi.org/2007/12/05/how-can-i-find-my-prostate/ http://blog.sfsi.org/2007/12/05/how-can-i-find-my-prostate/#comments Thu, 06 Dec 2007 04:16:51 +0000 Lil'Miss B http://blog.sfsi.org/2007/12/05/how-can-i-find-my-prostate/ Q: I am a 24 year old straight male but I like to finger my ass. I want to know if I can get orgasm by finding my G-Spot and if yes can you please avise how do I locate my G-Spot. I mean the posture, number of fingers, body position etc..

A: Lots of men of all sexual orientations enjoy butt play. All men have a prostate gland that many find intensely pleasurable and is sometimes compared to a woman’s G-spot, or sometimes called a P-spot. To locate the prostate gland just insert your finger (using some lube) into your anus and gently probe about 3-4″ deep along the anal wall towards your stomach. You might even consider getting a dildo for yourself. Here is a website where you can buy a nice selection of anal toys.

Many men find that lying flat on their backs on a towel with their knees bent is a good way to start experimenting with anal play. Don’t forget to use plenty of lube! Water-based lube can dry out quickly, so you might have to reapply frequently. Silicone-based lube lasts a lot longer. Both of these types of lube are compatible with latex condoms. You might even consider using a condom on your toy for easier clean-up.

-The SFSI Staff

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