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Should I surprise my wife with a 3rd partner?

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Q: My wife and I have been married for 10 years. We’re happy but the sex has gone from hot to not, and infrequent. I am trying to help rekindle something hot again. Here’s the thing: I have a friend and colleague, FriendX, that my wife is infatuated with. He’s a tall fit gentleman that [...]

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We swing and have HPV. How should we proceed from here?

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Q: My partner had a positive pap smear (for HPV). We are in our late 40s/early 50s. We swing, and we’ve had sex with a lot of people, but we almost always use condoms. Should we tell our other sexual partners? If we do, how far back should we go? What are the risks of [...]

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Why can’t I get into a swing club?

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

Q: Can you tell me why single male swingers often get the boot by most swingers including couples and even many single women? Is it a personal security issue? I noticed that most swingers who are couples, women, and men alike prefer only women and couples. Most of their ads say single men need not [...]

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How can I set up a three-some for my girlfriend and I?

Monday, July 23, 2007

Q: I get turned on, as a lot of men do, by the idea of seeing my girlfriend with another girl. We discussed it and don’t want to be polyamorous, because we think that could cause problems and seriously damage our relationship, which we are very serious about. But both me and my girlfriend like [...]

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