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Can my boyfriend get over trans-gender porn?

Q: My boyfriend, who claims to be completely straight, is into trans-gender (men-genitals, female-form) porn. He says he feels really ashamed from watching it and wants to stop more than anything. I think this goes back to a childhood sexual experience with his cousin when he was too young to know better. It was his [...]

My husband is into pervy stuff, do I go along?

Q: My husband is into coprophilia – he wants me to defecate on his face and into his mouth. I am completely repulsed by this. Not my idea of ‘sexy’ sex. It leaves me cold and not in the mood. Also makes me feel degraded and low. I’ve explained all this to him but it [...]

How can I deal with my sexually abused partner?

Q: I am a woman who is dating a fellow who grew up in a house with 7 children, all of whom were molested. The father molested most of them, but my guy was molested by a sibling. He told me early on that he had a fetish for peri-pubescent girls, like 12-14 year olds, [...]

What can I do about my spandex fetish?

Q: I am an 18 year old straight male with a spandex fetish looking to overcome it. I have always been turned on by people in spandex and by wearing spandex itself. I have no idea what started it, I have always been turned on by it. I secretly wear my mom’s tights when no [...]

How to continue sex life after MS diagnosis?

Q: I am a 57 year old female, straight, and have had MS for the last 3 years. I left a long-term relationship a few years ago because it wasn’t going to be able to weather the MS. He wasn’t the right partner to be with once I had a serious, chronic illness. It scared [...]

Is it ok to have rape fantasies?

Q: I am a woman with a question I don’t exactly know how to phrase. It has to do with what excites me, sexually. It doesn’t have to do with typical bondage/S&M type fetishes, which I have explored actively throughout my life and have come to accept as not inherently bad for me. This interest [...]

How can I get rid of this fetish?

Q: I have a spanking fetish, and I desperately want to overcome it. I am not entirely sure what the fetish is caused by, but I have always fantasized about it for as long as I can remember – probably since I was about three years old. (Seriously.) I am a self-confident person, but this [...]

How can I overcome my upbringing and enjoy sex?

Q: Hi there. I am a 25 year old woman who is struggling with feelings of guilt and shame related to sexual fantasies and masturbation. I am in a relationship with a man who is currently incarcerated so we have been unable to be consummate our love as of yet. I am still a virgin. [...]

How can I support my transitioning partner?

Q: I am in a relationship with someone who is transitioning, M to F, about six months on hormone therapy. This is my first relationship with anyone transgendered, and I find myself not exactly woefully ignorant, but without the resources to deal with this. Is there a support group for the friends/lovers/families of TG’s? I [...]