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What can I do about my spandex fetish?

Q: I am an 18 year old straight male with a spandex fetish looking to overcome it. I have always been turned on by people in spandex and by wearing spandex itself. I have no idea what started it, I have always been turned on by it. I secretly wear my mom’s tights when no [...]

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How to continue sex life after MS diagnosis?

Q: I am a 57 year old female, straight, and have had MS for the last 3 years. I left a long-term relationship a few years ago because it wasn’t going to be able to weather the MS. He wasn’t the right partner to be with once I had a serious, chronic illness. [...]

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Is it ok to have rape fantasies?

Q: I am a woman with a question I don’t exactly know how to phrase. It has to do with what excites me, sexually. It doesn’t have to do with typical bondage/S&M type fetishes, which I have explored actively throughout my life and have come to accept as not inherently bad for me. This interest [...]

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How can I get rid of this fetish?

Q: I have a spanking fetish, and I desperately want to overcome it. I am not entirely sure what the fetish is caused by, but I have always fantasized about it for as long as I can remember – probably since I was about three years old. (Seriously.) I am a self-confident [...]

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How can I overcome my upbringing and enjoy sex?

Q: Hi there. I am a 25 year old woman who is struggling with feelings of guilt and shame related to sexual fantasies and masturbation. I am in a relationship with a man who is currently incarcerated so we have been unable to be consummate our love as of yet. I am still a virgin. [...]

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How can I support my transitioning partner?

Q: I am in a relationship with someone who is transitioning, M to F, about six months on hormone therapy. This is my first relationship with anyone transgendered, and I find myself not exactly woefully ignorant, but without the resources to deal with this. Is there a support group for the friends/lovers/families of TG’s?
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