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Will some BDSM trigger my lover’s combat memories?

Q: I have recently reconnected with an old lover; we have been writing occasionally for years, but only recently saw each other after 30 years. He’s a combat veteran, has a Purple Heart, and was involved in some serious intrigue overseas. We’ve discussed restraints in the past, just kind of flirting with naughtiness, and I [...]