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How do I deal with my girthy penis?

Q: My penis has too much girth. Erect, it’s a little less than 6 inches in circumference, but none of my girlfriends has ever been comfortable with it. Especially now that my current partner has had menopause. I’m wondering if there’s a special condom that restricts circumference but not length. I expect not, but perhaps [...]

What can I use as homemade female sex toys?

Q: What can I use as homemade female sex toys? A: Many women use vegetables like cucumbers as dildos. If you are going to use any kind of a food item for insertion, it is best to cover it with a condom. Getting pieces of food in the vagina could lead to infection. Hair brush [...]

How can I have sex without pain?

Q: I’m writing because I’m a 20 year old sexually frustrated female. I’ve had a total of three committed relationships, including the one I’m in right now. And I’m a virgin. My problem: I can’t seem to have sex. There are both physical and psychological factors. Trying to have sex really hurts. Insertion is extremely [...]

Why can’t I orgasm?

Q: I’ve never had an orgasm. I’ve tried masturbation, and what I try that isn’t painful, is ineffective. The only two times I’ve had sex have been very painful and not enjoyable. I’ve had oral sex with a couple of guys and nothing has made me climax. I’m thinking that much of it could be [...]

Why can’t his penis get inside me?

Q: I am 19 and had sex with my boyfriend for the first time last night. I am on the pill and I didn’t have a problem becoming “wet” but I don’t think he ever was able to penetrate me. I am a virgin and am wondering if I am too tight. I tried to [...]

Is it ok to douche?

Q: My friend told me that to use douches too much is not good for a woman? Is that true? Also if it is alright how often should someone use it? Like every few months? A: Many doctors and health organizations now agree that there is no reason for douching unless your doctor specifically recommends [...]

What is an embedded clitoris? How can I open my vaginal entrance more? It’s too tight.

Q: I have two unrelated questions: 1. I have been told (by a physician’s assistant, when I told her I know I have a clitoris but have never seen it) that I have something called an “embedded clitoris.” What exactly is that? 2. I recently purchased a vibrator/dildo. I picked one of the smaller ones, [...]

Will sex hurt after my hysterectomy?

Q: I’m a 44 yr old woman. Two years ago, I was diagnosed with uterine cancer and I had a complete hysterectomy which included complete removal of ovaries, tubes, uterus, and cervix. Luckily, my cancer was caught in Stage I, so the odds are very good that it won’t ever come back and I didn’t [...]

Do I use one or two fingers to masturbate my female partner? What is the best technique?

Q: Do I use one or two fingers to masturbate my female partner? What is the best technique? A: The best technique is the one that works for your partner the best. Asking your partner what she likes best can be a great way to find this out! Another idea is to experiment and ask [...]

Did I get a vaginal infection from anal sex?

Q: My boyfriend and I just recently tried anal sex. He got partially in, and then I called it quits. He then just reinserted his penis in to my vagina with out washing it. We don’t use condoms because we are monogamous. Now, my vagina itches and has a lot of white/yellowish discharge. This started [...]