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How can I have sex without pain?

Q: I’m writing because I’m a 20 year old sexually frustrated female. I’ve had a total of three committed relationships, including the one I’m in right now. And I’m a virgin. My problem: I can’t seem to have sex. There are both physical and psychological factors. Trying to have sex really hurts. Insertion is extremely [...]

How can I find a sex partner without spending money?

Q: Hello I am a mid-20s man from Europe. I have two questions, help me please. I have never had sex because of money shortage and my religion. It is difficult to make the first step for first sex. What would make sex easier for me? How can I make this step without money? A: [...]

Should I tell her I’m a virgin?

Q: I’m a 33 year old guy and never had vaginal intercourse. I just started dating someone I like very much, and who obviously has a lot of experience. I’m very self conscious about my virginity (at 33) and the fact that I have a (pathetic, in my opinion) 4 inch cock. I really want [...]

Is a blowjob before the 1st time a good idea?

Q: I’ve heard it is possible to avoid the 1-minute wonder effect (that virgin males are infamous for) by getting a blow job before trying the big event. Is is possible to get another erection so early? I’m worried I will not have it in me for the actual deed. A: First times can be [...]

Am I still a virgin?

Q: I am 21 and been with my beautiful boyfriend for 2 years. We have never had sex because we don’t believe in sex before marriage. Sometimes we like to get close with our clothes on. The other day something odd happened – I wiped myself and there was a tiny bit of blood. I’m [...]

How can we make our first-time having sex better?

Q: Hey SFSI, I’ve found your site very helpful already but I have some questions that are more specific about my the first time with my girlfriend. First of all we are both virgins and have decided that we want to lose our virginities to each other so here goes. Question 1. I hear that [...]